Quote of the day: “The greater the obstacle, the more glory in overcoming it.” Moliere
Today I felt great. Got to take off bandages and shower. Drain less annoying.
I still am overcome w/ information regarding how many people on my street have cancer. What to do? Do we move and yet I don’t want to leave this to someone else. We are going to find out what options we may have and hopefully do some testing. It is scary and baffling. It just means another big change in my life. I’m not sure I can take too many more.
We had everyone over for dinner and celebrated Mike and Elle’s engagement. We are so excited for this exciting event, their wedding on August 4. Patti and Serida brought the most delicious dinner over and we had such a great time. Maggie and Kate make life so enjoyable. We love watching them and everything they do.
Irene, my mother-in-law, has felt horrible about the idea of me having cancer but hasn’t known what to do to offer her help. She brought over flowers and gift certificate for a pedicure. Mauritia stopped by earlier for a visit this week. Joe has a very kind and generous family and they really want to help but they also are afraid to say anything or walk on anyone’s toes. Everyone handles problems differently. It’s one of the adjustments that couples have to make in marriage- understanding how your family has dealt w/ issues and sorrow and understanding how your spouse’s family has dealt w/ it and somehow meshing the two. I found it difficult to understand Joe’s family when my Grandmother, Vernessa passed away. No one mentioned it- as if they were afraid that by mentioning it, I would collapse on the floor and that would be it. I wanted to talk about this Grandma who had given me more than anyone else- she showed me how to live my life. I felt like the opposite and so appreciated the people who acknowledged her existence and wanted to celebrate her life!
Rose Olds made these incredible professional looking sweet rolls and cupcakes!
Tomorrow we find out results from the lymph nodes and lump. I’m anxious to talk to Dr. Lloyd and have questions answered. Looking for oncologist and hope to make an appointment tomorrow. Joe was exhausted today, all these impending life events are wearing heavily on him.
Hi Joanie,
I called Joe on Thursday evening. he seems tired and burdened by having to answer so many questions, but so gracious. He’s a great guy to have around at this time, I’m sure.
I’m glad that today was a better day. I wanted to call, but felt that you might enjoy some peace and quiet and family time.
I’d like to call you tomorrow when it is convenient for you. I’ll text you.
Congratulations to Mike and Elle! That’s great! Please give Mike a hug for me. Love you, Laurie